Thoughts of Nissa

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    Forgiveness•معافی

    Forgive. Be forgiven. Forgive for your sanity and well being.  Forgive to move on. Forgive to feel peace within you. Leave the burden behind and forgive for yourself. I have been hurt. My heart has wept. My soul was shattered. But I found healing in forgiveness. I forgave for my heart’s serenity. My pain was […]

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    Honour•عزت

      honour. izzat. women. Women have become tied to respect, reputation and pride. We have been stripped from our individuality. We are tied to family and society’s honour. Our hands are tied. Our thoughts are to be controlled. A patriarchal society looms over our heads. A community dominated by men feels threatened by women’s freedom. […]

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    Mother•ا می

    May 14. Mother’s Day. On this day, I celebrate mothers. I celebrate their strength, courage, and patience. I celebrate brown mothers. Our mothers are the roots that hold our families together. I admire them. I admire my mother’s strength and struggle to keep my family together when it was on the edge of being shattered. […]

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    Caste•ذات (Part 2)

      I now want to address issues of zaat that directly affect young Pakistani women who live in the West. I want to point out that my words that will follow come from my personal experiences, from my family and from my surroundings. My words are from  various discussions that took place with close friends and […]

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    Caste•ذات (Part 1)

    Yes, the following post will be about caste or zaat, as it’s generally referred to in Pakistani society. I want to first provide a definition of zaat to understand how it plays a role in families and how it impact the way different communities and groups interact among each other. Zaat, its roots are derived from the […]

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    Grandmother•دادو

    This is the post excerpt.